Dildos and vibes are also self-affirming tools — like physical tokens to both remind you your pleasure is important and to help you get it. Take your time touching other parts of your body and trying to help yourself feel relaxed and sexy. Despite research showing that women masturbate as frequently as men, it's still not a topic that all females openly discuss.
Then, while pressing down lightly, wiggle the fingers towards each other, squeezing and lifting the labia together between the two fingers. Many people report Earth-shattering orgasms when stimulating the vagina and clitoris at the same time.